YOU NEED SPACE.................Why?

Sabwona my dearies...................Today I want to tackle........metaphorically of course why Space should be there. In relationships I often wonder why Ladies feel like they are getting the short end of the stick in certain circumstances and yet we are the ones putting all the illusions out there.

Case and point When you with your guy and you can clearly see he is tired and very preoccupied you might want his attention for that moment but did it occur to you that he doesn't want to talk ........ SOMETIMES THE GUYS JUST NEED TO BREATHE.

Ladies don't suffocate him because you want to grow closer together or try to get to know him or bond or which ever cockamamie story you have to delude yourself with they are times they want to be alone or sit in silence to clear their heads.
I believe men are less complex and don't go thinking and scrutinizing every little detail......it's no the way they were programmed sorry.

So my point i'm trying to drive across is when you see you man in front of a TV watching his precious Sports match, game, race or simply playing Xbox with his mates .........4 your sake don't start whining to him or switch of the television to get his attention because he promised two weeks before to take you shopping for that shoe.....

....you will be killing an inner side of him (the inner child begging for fun and freedom) and most definitely he will be pissed because you happen to be emasculating him in front of his boys.
So if he acts aggressively towards you and maybe refuses don't be surprised.

In my opinion I believe they way we women love shop and get in touch with friends or bond over something whether a baby or a new outfit or simply a guy that's the way men like to have their space with their thoughts or in their den goofing of...........Women may not understand them but who cares they have their positive uses most of the time and i'm sure the confusion is mutual .

So the way we don't want to be interrupted when watching a sappy romance, series or shopping wit the girls is precisely how the male population feels.

Something to reflect upon ...........Cherio

TEARS....real or crocodile ones

Konnichiwa my readers It amuses me up till today how men no matter how strong or powerful or superior they are from king to queens to the lowest form of man all get so uncomfortable and uneasy when they see a woman cry.
I know as they say it's the male protective instinct ..............cave man and all.......but most of the times - 30% of the tears you see are actually real . Since we women are emotional creatures due to the femininity hormones and the lot............anyway majority of us  are......we feel like crying when we are too emotional for instance when we are angry, sad, happy, frustrated and then there is the ultimate crocodile tears used SADLY by the most of the female population to manipulate and get what they want.
Naturally when you men see them you freak and just want the tears to stop because you feel it's some thing you can't control............and lets face it it kills you when you can't control.
So now i bet your asking my lovely gents how does one such as yourself differentiate between the real tears from the fake tears...........I'm about to tell you.............................Unless you are very observant ..which lets face it most of you are not you will be able to realise if you could see her eyes and get passed the tears that .its only for attention.
At a young age humans use tears to manipulate for example a baby...or  a toddler its only the women who learn later on the ART OF TEARS...to get what you want. Don't get me wrong it doesn't work all the time just 90% :)

As the young boys are told to be tough and not shed a tear or they will be ridiculed the girls are realising and thinking......''.hmmmmm I can make this work to my advantage.''

The most crucial thing we can all tell our selves is that when a MAN CRIES THE WORLD STOPS FOR A SECOND. If you look around you at the time you might actually see people stop and move in slow motion like the Matrix....But seriously..........Men don't always show emotion but when they do I believe as do most of us that it is heart breaking......often done in silence

The amusing thing is some incidences when men cry it's mainly for a sport they like.....if the lose a match.....then comes the water works.
I know some of you are wondering if women's tears are inferior to men ..I'm not saying that they are but we have to accept that when a man cries its 100% real most of the time and it's so emotional......we women do't know whether to hug you or run and give you room ......so now you know guys both our reactions are almost similar...Except if it's an infant women run towards it and men run away. or try to stop it.............hahaha

That's it 4 now........

you

Promise you'll
Always be the one
To pull the trigger
When my feelings
Get ahead of me
When my mind
And body can't
Seem to coexist

Eventually when the spark
Starts to ignite
I hope you
Run and take cover
So Please Don't try
To tell me you love me
Because I just do something crazy
And say it back
Then one of us
Will most definitely
End up heartbroken
Tears and Bloodstains
Will be all that's left
If this Continuum finally
Draws to an end

Wake up from Slumber

It doesn't matter
What you say or do

As long as you have the craving

For fortune and fame

It's same Movie

Different script

Only in the faces 

Of the preexisting cast

Can you observe

The truth of and the sad reality

As you stare 

Into your reflection

On the puddle in the street

You find you're not as different

As the one's before you.

All the thoughts run through your head

Telling you to run for the hills

Quit while you still have strength

But the years pass by

Time alerts you that you're trapped

A big 10 foot creature reduced to 

The mere inches of an ant

In your mouth is an absent 

Cold dead voice of no hope

And reason 

I DON'T CARE I LOVE IT

 Bonsour my petits,
To all my fashion people, novices, professionals, veterans out therein the world, there is nothing more that joins and unites us like a common goal......
......What? you wonder.........

....i'll indulge you.
 For its .......shouted, whispered, screamed and shown in all scales and aspects out there from the rooftops to the gutters..........the poor and rich accept their differences for this event.............it comes seasonally without fail.........Fights are broken out tempers flare...............Expression and support is shown by the manner of dress code..........very uniform............
Well If you guessed anything sports related then you are to be sourly mistaken ......even that doesn't get that much hype....... What i'm going on about is nothing other than

FASHION WEEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This event is carried out in the biggest, brightest cities in the world; New York, Paris, London, Milan showcasing the most implacable art and fashion all rolled up with culture and creativity that even the gods if they existed would be envious....of these designs in form of dresses, outfits and couture. 

All the fashion powerhouses and upcommers all arrive just to make a splash once again on the world stage.

Brushing shoulders with rich and famous as you attend and participate in this iconic momentous week.

 

JUST DESERTS

FEELING INDULGENT..

It's common knowledge to us all human beings that we all love and can't resist the craving and the deep unending pleasure of food ....mainly pastries, deserts and junk food to be more precise.

It's not like we don't know that it is bad for us it's just that it tastes so good.............right now writing this is making me think of chocolate and a roman pizza (tangy Russian............yummmmmm)


We often always want to lose more weight or something in that regard but when put in front of these foods with all the ammunition they possess we fall prey.........in their awesomeness....but stay strong........with all their delicious and purely evil taste we can have some ....and then resist.

So i ask you my readers lets try not to binge eat .......u know exactly what i'm talking about............if your following a diet then do it 100% and not just 3/4 of it.
We should stop believing it's the only comfort food created..................

HUH! are we on the same planet!

Miscommunications 

Olá . With miscommunications these often leave us irritated, disappointed, angry or even happy......generally they bring out the wrong emotion for that situation and the sad thing is that when we realise that it was an error..........it either a load removed of your shoulders or a giant mountain thrown at high speed on them for support.

The most common of them all is language barrier..........it often frustrates but it can be overcome sometimes if the hand gestures and body signs tend to help enlighten the other individual.
It's funny how men tend to put women in a bracket saying that they can't understand us and vise versa hence the concept Men from Mars and Women from Venus..........we all know it's got nothing to do with the planets but the aspect of how different the individual and character traits and demands both sexes are.

But it's really simple; Women are more complex....we work with complex.strive to fix it ....Champions at multitasking and yes we for some reason have a lot to talk about when ever near our pips....and we see men as challenges and most times sadly to say things to fix......to suit us

Men on the other hand see us as simply good looking beings , gentle and very complex. They like their lives to be just the way it is and expect the woman to fix into their lives and refuse to adjust. They hate complex and multitasking, don't like bickering and don't hold grudges for long.since they are very visual beings they get often distracted .