AWKWARD SILENCES

God dag my readers...Today I thought I should talk about Awkward silences...................................OOOOOOOOOOOHHHHH.....

I can already here it from your end....hahahha. We all have been in that situation that you just stepped into or it just falls into place for instance. You are out with your friends let's presume for this sake that they are a couple and all over a sudden out of the blue the girl (because let's admit we usually keep some unresolved issues all bottled up and departmentalized ...... waiting for when to pounce so guys a word of advise when she say's its okay don't believe it be alert and check through your day activities what you possibly screwed up and make up for it.)

I have a friend called Jack (not real name) he believes that the only way to survive and manage ladies that is his mother, sister and girlfriend and other female friends is to apologize first when you're not sure of a situation or else 'TROUBLE BEFALLS YOU'. I know to many of you who read this might agree and say it's the simpler and easier way..........no one gets hurt and the females in your life think you are sensitive and caring towards them even though you are unaware of what just happened. I for one have mixed feelings about this approach for instance we ladies may love it when you are attentive, sensitive and caring and can be man enough to apologies but trust me when we ask why you are apologizing and you don't have a good response I advise you to brace yourself......that men is what pisses us off the most.

When I think of this I remember the cat in the Animation PUSS IN BOOTS -funny movie; anyway the cat used to put its paw on its mouth when ever it was an awkward situation and make the noise ohwwhwhwh (as to insinuate something was about to go down)

Here's my advise on awkward silences....do as i do and say ''avoid them'' whenever you are put in the situation where you feel it coming up..talk about any thing  even the sky your shoe politics.........whatever just try not to get sucked in.
This situation of awkwardness happens when people are actually thinking too much are are panicking or due to keep anger and suppression of emotion so i urge you to relax and let it all out.
There is always the third option if all fails have a drink to loosen the atmosphere.( commonly known as the ICE BREAKER)