Wednesday 28 August 2013

THE HOW TO...............MEN Part 2

Guten tag my readers as we left off earlier n i was giving my honest to God opinion on what i think should be.....I you agree or not please comment below i would love to here all. Today we are zeroing on the guys who for some obscure reason having an absurd belief that first impressions don't matter. Well i have news for you it does. This leads me to the introduction of:

The I don't care/ First impressions don't matter guy

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This category of men amuse me because they know full well women, the majority of us are very visual so when they walk around with uncombed hair and unruly facial hair like food in a beard, untucked in shirts on suits, unironed shirts, dirty clothes...all this is naturally unappealing and a turn off for ladies. You then have the audacity to complain why ladies aren't into you REALLY? anyway the tip is please try to groom your self, I'm not talking but Armani suits and wear Calvin Klein underwear daily and break the bank but you can be smart with simply take care of your appearance because it does matter to the us and it should matter to you. The I don't care attitude (mainly monopolized by guys in early 20's - mid 30's) you have should just be squashed please get a more responsive and assertive one because like or not women still want a men they can respect and look up to for themselves,children and show off to their friends and family. This is a characteristic of the lazy type of men since they are too pathetic to do anything they just say they don't care and 'are going with the flow' yet when it comes down to it we all know you just LAZY. So please in this regard grow up and the men other guys aspire to be a MAN'S MAN.

The Unfaithful/ Player

Gentlemen if you have a wondering eye and for some reason can't seem faithful to one woman then its simple tell them in advance you want an open relationship PLEASE FOR YOUR SAKE DON'T WAIT because you will get caught, I'm not promising miracles and telling you that she will accept and be into it but at least you are honest and she can know all the cards on the table never know she might be open to it. I'm sure there are you guys who disagree  & won't listen to me don't forget this quote 'Hell Hath no Fury like a Woman Scorned'. I like to believe that whoever said this originally was talking about the reaction of a woman after being wronged. Those of you who are from Uganda know the measures some ladies go through for revenge after being lied or cheated on  by hiring ''Iron Bar People'' to take care of the problem who could be your other lady or worst case scenario you fall victim to them. So please men in this field keep it together and be careful because if the tables were turned you wouldn't be amused plus the obvious risk of getting infected with an STD or AIDS.

The Momma's boy

Throughout history this category of species of men often have a clash with the wives and mothers.Sadly when the men get married they think the women are they exchange vows to are to be their substitute mothers but that not what your lady signed up for. When you promise her a partner not a maid and a mother to  always agree and baby you that's what she expects so please don't disappoint because she will leave you and find some one who can be there for her and provide support. When you are looking for a lady try not to look for one just like your mother or choose one just to please her because in the long run you might hate your partner or she might cause a drift in your life. This is a complete and utter turn off for us ladies, the constant checking in with her 5 times a day and asking for her opinion on your type of underwear. So my advise is please put a clear distinction between your mother and your lady and make sure they both know where they stand and find a balance where you can have them respect each other because in the long run you will most likely lose your lady or lose your mother.

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